“the bleak light of full adulthood, which is to one’s early twenties as Sunday morning is to Saturday night”
-Neal Stephenson, Snow Crash
There’s plenty I’ve found myself more interested in as I’ve grown older: Lingerie, pegging, The Dave Matthews Band. Similarly, the partners I’ve had for many years have also developed as we’ve grown together. They too adopt new fetishes and quirks, though nothing as weird as The Dave Matthews Band. That’s pretty much just me.
While these quirks certainly vary strongly between the partners I’ve had, there is one fetish of which I’ve found more and more of the female partners I’ve had have been particularly fond: the creampie fantasy.
It might be as simple as the pleasure of forbidden fruits. Maybe it’s a reclamation of the historical use of impregnation as a tool of female oppression. Or maybe we’re all just getting a little older and parenthood is becoming something that scares us in a good way. Whatever the reason, just like Game of Thrones or Fifth Harmony, pretending to knock a girl up is what’s hot right now.
Note, I said “pretending”. Safe sex no more mutually exclusive with an impregnation fantasy than consent is with a rape roleplay. I’ve done the impregnation roleplay while wearing condoms, with partners using an IUD, I’ve even had an impregnation roleplay with a transwoman. I discuss the matter beforehand, establish whatever parameters please both parties, and we forge ahead with an everpresent consideration of each other and have never had an issue.
It’s a high risk roleplay, though. You’re playing with the concept of maternity. Which is a Freudian slippery slope. If we were using the rating system I employed in my article about roleplays, I would rank this one as an R-Rated roleplay. At least. I think that’s why it’s been received so well. It’s just so impossibly naughty…
Like many of my partners, I grew up with a stock of middle and upper-middle class white youths. For many of us in the progressive generation, we weren’t raised to be afraid of sex. We were raised to be afraid of babies. The parents of our generation made sure we knew their regrets about having us.
Of course, our parents are one generation deeper into the widespread use of pregnancy to subjugate and indenture women. With the expanding recognition of these acts, there too is coming the expanding fetishization of them. Just like 1950s household or Burlesque, our newfound understanding of the sordid history makes it wet with unacceptability. It’s no coincidence that all of the partners who have enthusiastically taken to this fetish are also Steinem-reading, patriarchy-fighting, self-identified feminists.
In addition to feminism, the other trend that’s popular with my partners is aging. We’re not old yet, but we’re getting to the age where we’re expected to continue propagating the species. And in this bleak light of full adulthood, there is something satisfying about the feeling of giving in to the societal pressure. I won’t deny that it’s a little liberating when immerse myself in the toxic masculinity that is dripping from the affectations of me being “dominant” in the bedroom.
I am become patriarchy, destroyer of wombs.
Don’t get your Dworkins in a twist, though. Just like condoms, feminism too is not mutually exclusive with this roleplay. I can only imagine the struggles of the average woman who identifies as feminist and submissive, so I don’t want to miss an opportunity to remind them that you can be both. And the feminist/submissive dichotomy is no less false than the conventional one drawn between virgin/whore.
Be both. Say the nasty shit.
Get the nasty shit said to you.
It’s more prevalent than you might imagine. Reddit has 11 forums dedicated to the subject, two of which are personals, totalling 140,242 subscribed readers. And that’s just in the public forums, of which the three most popular (are NSFW and) are:
- r/breeding – 26,514 Readers
This forum is sort of a catch-all for any media/literature of or relating to the subject.
- r/cuckoldpregnancy – 7,714 Readers
Which is directed to the act of humiliating submissives with having their partners sharing a child with a third, outside party. While there certainly are a few posts dedicated to cuckqueaning and also whitebreeding a female person of color. The most common post is for “blackbreeding” a white woman with an extramarital black male (or “bull” to use the technical language).
- r/inbreeding – 4,616 Readers
This subreddit goes with the tagline “When just fucking your family isn’t enough”. What a pointed commentary! If you’re already having one of the most taboo fetishes on the market, why not go the extra weird mile?
In for a penny, in for a pound…
Reddit is a fine platform for getting your hands on literature and some images on the subject. While they do have videos, the champion of getting internet porn videos for free is the searching feature behind porn torrenting websites. These have been meticulously and methodically designed to satisfy perverts with very specific proclivities. I groomed all the tags relevant to the topic and found a total of 362 videos! Of the top tags concerning these fetishes, here’s a list with the number of tagged videos:
|“Wifebreeding”, “Wifebreeder”, “Inseminated”, “Impreg”||3|
|“Wife.Breeders”, “Breed”, “Blackbred.com”, “Forced.Impregnation”||2|
|“Implied.Impregnation”, “Blrackbred”, “Breedingwhore”, “Interracial.Breeding”, “Reluctant.Breeding”, “Reluctant.Impregnation”, “Forced.Breeding”, “Bred.By.Blacks”||1|
Note: plenty of the videos in this stock fall into several, if not most, of these categories.
In total, we’re looking at 362 separate videos that are all directed towards an impregnation fetish. To put that in perspective, it’s not as common as videos tagged with fetishes like “Emo” (429 videos) or “Anal.Beads” (465 videos). It’s almost as popular as spectacles like “ass.to.ass” (364 videos); marginally more popular than fetishes like “Medical” (358 videos) or “wrestling” (360 videos). And it’s distinctly more common than videos tagged with fetishes like “Tickling” (255 videos) or “Nipple.Torture” (253 videos).
Of the representative videos tagged in the impregnation fetish, the most downloaded are:
5. Veruca James – Virtual Sex Creampie (142 Seeds)
4. Alex Chance – Brothers and Sisters (154 Seeds)
3. Taylor Mitchell – Real Amateur Hotwife & Interracial Cuckold (175 Seeds)
2. Princess Leia – Party Girl Had Daddy Impregnate Her (207 Seeds)
1. Lady Fyre – Mom Made Me Impregnate Aunt Mallory (441 Seeds)
Clearly, inbreeding is the most commonly shared video on the subject. But interracial cuckoldry is in a very powerful third place. Just barely in the top 5 would be the fine performance of Veruca James, which is a story of a deceptive girl who lures her boyfriend into using sabotaged condoms so that she gets pregnant because she is excited about the idea of having his abortion.
I’ll bet you thought the one that wasn’t about incest or cuckoldry was gonna be a little more normal, didn’t you?
Given the usually direct correlation between how sexy something is and how unacceptable it is, don’ t be afraid to let your freak flag fly. Sure, I’ve proposed this roleplay to a few girls who were not interested. But accepting a refusal is easy enough to do, that it’s worth at least offering if you’re interested.
As for the execution of the roleplay, here’s a list of winning strategies I’ve found for the engagement:
- Suspend the Disbelief
Don’t let them see you put the condom on. Sure, they’ll know you’re wearing one. But there’s something exciting about not knowing that your partner is wearing one. Like good practical special effects at the movies. I know it’s only a model, but I forget when I’m not reminded.
- Talk Some Shit
Even if you were legitimately having unprotected sex for the explicit purpose of procreation, you wouldn’t know if you were successful for at least a week. So the only way to make it real (or ‘real’ in the case of a roleplay) is for the verbal exchange to happen. Use some graphic language with phrases like “knock me up” or “make me a mom”. You can even get extra gritty with nigh-agricultural phrases like “you’re my fertile, little breed mare”.
- Find out What You Like About It
This should be the first step before exploring any kink really. Do you like the idea of having something of your partner’s put into you? Do you like the idea of owning your partner from the inside? There are a lot of different places you could take this kink and finding out what direction will really help guide you to a place you really dig.
Have you ever tried an impregnation roleplay? What was the scenario? Got any winning lines you like to say/hear? Any good videos you’d recommend for people who’re interested?